Do you do any form of competition in the car at all?
My ideal setup is (assuming 130lbft to pull it)
3.070
2.105
1.695
1.387
1.130
4.05 Final
Thats the setup i run and its bloody nice:
Engine speeds in top gear:-
40 KPH = 1681 RPM 50 KPH = 2101 KPM 60 KPH = 2521 RPM 80 KPH = 3362 RPM
100 KPH = 4202 RPM 110 KPH = 4622 RPM 130 KPH = 5463 RPM 160 KPH = 6723 RPM
Top Speed in 1 gear = 74.457 KPH
And changes into 2 gear at 5828 RPM dropping 2672 RPM
Top Speed in 2 gear = 108.590 KPH
And changes into 3 gear at 6844 RPM dropping 1656 RPM
Top Speed in 3 gear = 134.857 KPH
And changes into 4 gear at 6955 RPM dropping 1545 RPM
Top Speed in 4 gear = 164.803 KPH
And changes into 5 gear at 6925 RPM dropping 1575 RPM
Top Speed in 5 gear = 202.285 KPH
I actually daily drive this gearbox and its absolutely fine on the road. Cruising at 4,200 rpm isn't that bad at all. While the shift from first to second is alot closer with that taller first, its still not as close as i'd like it to be. I'm so glad i got this setup over the other common gearkits which are only a tad closer then factory.
In my rally car I've got a custom quafe setup with a 86kph first gear and then 1,200rpm rev drops between changes, finishing up with a 197 kph top speed. THAT is really nice but comes at a cost.
Honestly for the setup you discribe I wouldn't worry about 1st and 2nd gears. The absolute ratio (gear ratio x final drive) is still really high so you've got tonnes of torque and both those gears come and go really quickly. Close gears are more important with the gears you'll use more often. For your setup i'd say you're beter off getting the 4.9 final drive. Dont muck about, the box is apart and it'll cost you exactly the same, the difference in cruising rpm is not much and you'll get better gains. As it stands going from 4.4 to 4.7 isn't that much. It is an improvement but nothing to get excited about. Then chuck in the first gear, not only will it make it closer to second but it'll bring 1st gears top speed up a bit which is good because you just reduced it and almost made it a waste of time going to 4.9.
Top Fuel sell a first and second gear kit seperately but you have to remember that it is extremely expensive because you're not just buying the gears but also the whole main shaft which is where the money is in these other complete kits.
FYI, I'm going to be building the same box as above but with a 4.9 final drive for another gravel rally car. Should absolutely haul ass!